This was a great
question that continues to come up so I guess it is time to discuss again!
Would you mind if your significant other frequented Strip clubs? Some men have made the strip club a part of their weekly guys' nights out, much to the dismay of their partners. These guys argue that looking and no touching equals no cheating like watching porn, while many women believe that enjoying the view of a pole dancer partaking in her, er, "profession" is cheating -- plain and simple.
I guess it depends on the relationship that you have with your Man/Woman. Some women don't care if their man goes out with their "boys" to strip clubs but it might be different if he constantly goes by himself. Some women go for the same reasons some men go, girls night out...etc...Also, some feel it is a total waste of time and money to visit strip clubs. Guys often see it as no more than a diversion. Women see it as tantamount to cheating. Or at least betrayal.
A lot of men and women see all strip clubs as a form of entertainment. They feel that Lap dances & innocent touching are okay. That you can have fun, but not "Too Much FUN". When it gets to that, it is cheating. One knows how far they should go. Most men view the female body is the most beautiful thing on earth. If men appreciates another woman's body, that doesn't mean they don't appreciate yours. It boils down to your relationship and what you guys discuss about what you accept and not accept. If your woman or man has an issue with strip clubs/porn and you have a strip club/porn addiction that relationship might not last too long. Dammit put a pole up in your bedroom if you need to if you think that will stop him from going!! LOL!! Once again Communication...Trust are so important to a relationship and you would rather talk about it BEFORE it becomes an issue then after.
Corner Family, What are YOUR Thoughts....
(Click on the link
below to discuss)
No comments:
Post a Comment